Unlearning the old things. Let the new begin!!!

What's up DeKay Tribe!!! I miss y'all!! Let me tell you life has been life'nnn 😂 but it's not about what you go through, it's about how you come out of whatever you went through!

I realized that I have certain patterns I have to unlearn. From my younger years, past relationships, friendships etc. I realized a long time ago I run away from my issues a lot. I been doing more soul searching and getting closer to God and I realized....I still act in the same principle of "when it gets too hard... run." I told myself I do not want to be that way anymore. Instead of running away from whatever it is that's bothering me, I want to embrace it and face it head on....andddd most importantly run to God with it!

There are more things I have to unlearn as well. Another big one is "the people who are currently in your life did not hurt you...stop projecting" whewww listen I try haha but after you been so negative for so long or been told certains things you start to believe them and then that mindset becomes apart of you. Slowly, you start to think everyone is this way or it's just a matter of time before they start to treat you a certain way and you cannot go into jobs, relationships, friendship or potentially partnerships that way! You have to unlearn the trauma, unlearn the pain, unlearn the abuse, unlearn the lack etc. Listen, I know it's not easy because I experienced the unlearn process myself. I am STILL unlearning behaviors and how I think. It does get better as time goes on and you will start to see a different outlook on life in general. My words for the year are optimistic and intentional. I want to go into every situation optimistic and not just think the worst all the time. I want to be intentional in everything I do! My relationship with God, my son, my career, my friends and future relationship will all be intentional and optimistic! Let the new beginnings commence!! You got this and trust and believe I got y'all too 💞

Love you DeKay Tribe

Muahhh,

DeKay

Tell me a few things you are unlearning right now???

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